Wiring Harness Question

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Hey listers-
How does one go about finding the male counterpart to a female
connector or vice-versa?

I'm trying to find out what the counterpart is for this female
2-pin connector, part no. 171-971-934. It is a "stepped" white
connector with a female spade connection and a male spade in
the connector. I need the male counterpart to this terminal
housing as well as a pair of these male spades and the female
terminal ends, metric size.

I imagine these are dealer only parts, but I've seen these in
VWs as well, wondering if someone can help me figure out how to
go about doing this.

I have access to the Family Album, but don't know if this will
help or not.

Taka