yet more questions about 87 4000cs quattro

[Rusty Rae <rrae@cotl.com>]

Question #1
okay when I put the key in the car and open the door, i get no door
dinger, further checking revealed that the relay had been removed. I
looked in my parts bin and found a relay that would fit but has one
extra termanal peg, Can I just clip that termainal peg?? or sould I find
one that fits perfect.

Question #2
 When I put the key in and turn it to the first setting the coolant temp
light flashes, the car never heats up, but when I take a turn fast and
hard the light blinks? Why would it do this??? 
Thanks in advance 
joe